Wake up（3）

 

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As a Ph.D. in Psychology from Central Plains College of Humanities, Nan Yangsheng is about to graduate and leave the campus. Since he chose to major in psychology, the problem facing him now is that no unit has hired such talents. What awaits him will be ruthless unemployment.

At this time, his mobile phone rang, and the information on the mobile phone came from his alumni, especially those doctoral students who were about to graduate together from different departments but in the same hospital.

Greeting text messages of graduation messages were collected on his mobile phone:

 

Friends, don't say goodbye, we are still destined to go out of school; friends, don't miss me too much, we are too busy to see each other every day. Friends, don't forget me, we are still together in the real struggle! Thanks to the college, let us meet the beautiful campus!

 

Campus is the most beautiful site in life. Here we learn professional knowledge, make close friends, find the direction of development, determine future goals, and complete the transition from dream to reality. If life can be repeated, I would rather meet my old classmates again!

 

Don't look back, it's too regretful; don't say goodbye, it's too sad; don't miss it, it's too sad. Just go quietly like this. Alumni, no matter if I was sorry to you before or you were sorry to me, don't talk too much, let's go!

 

With the end of the graduation ceremony, we are all starting to enter the society. What I want to say most at this time is that everyone cherishes and remembers all the memories we have together. , we have to separate, I hope the road ahead will be smooth sailing for everyone!

 

The road to our dreams may be full of difficulties and obstacles. As long as we work hard and believe in ourselves, we all have enough courage to reach the paradise of our dreams. When parting, tears blurred his eyes. I would like to say to myself and my dear classmates: To appraise the faith, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must go on bravely.

 

The once lively dormitory is now deserted. The classmates who used to love each other are now about to be scattered all over the world. Time can fade each other's memories, but it can't blur the deep friendship. Distance can block the connection with each other, but it cannot block the endless concern.

 

Unforgettable college life, we have become mature and have the courage to take responsibility. On campus, we gain knowledge and learn to be human. The alma mater is deeply affectionate, and the mountains, rivers and rivers here have left our beautiful memories, which I will always remember.

 

Words such as "full of vigor, vigor, and radiance, hard-working students" may never be written on us in the future. We need to meet new challenges and realize new dreams. Greater social responsibilities have been placed on our shoulders. For the better tomorrow of the country and the people, please stick to the beliefs we left behind in college...

 

It would be as absurd and ridiculous to label a certain group simply and rudely, but as far as current university observations are concerned, the group of college students is actually a very twisted group.

Why do college students say that they are basically adults in terms of age, but in fact, all aspects of college students have not kept up with the characteristics that should be possessed in the definition of adults, because they lack social experience, they are an adult group The most innocent and ignorant group in the world.

It is not easy to define the group of college students, but when it comes to college students, some words will always pop up in people's minds: simple, idol drama, star chasing, playing games, self-esteem, newborn calf, energetic, easily deceived, and mood swings , easy to be fooled, stubborn, grumpy, lazy, high-minded, strong self-esteem, lack of self-control and financial management skills.

In short, this group of college students is a group that seems to be adults, but in fact they have not completely broken away from their youth in all aspects. Most college students can't even handle the most basic interpersonal relationships well.

When you are lucky enough to step into the threshold of the university, you will find that the university is not so much a holy land as a melting pot. The university campus is integrated with the world and the society. There are students from all corners of the country, and there are various and colorful activities, forming a unique campus culture. The university campus incorporates the innocence of the middle school age, and also includes all kinds of things in the world and everything in the world. Whether it is common trivial matters in society or unique anecdotes and anecdotes in school, they will always appear in front of you, and the key depends on how you perceive and understand them. As a result, some people became "The Legend of Condor Heroes" after entering the university, while some became "Swordsman", while others could only become "Xiakers".

During the time when Nanyang was living in college, he discovered that this "ivory tower" has edges and corners, and it is possible to bump into it if you are not careful.

In middle school, most students are used to asking the teacher what to do; but in college, the teacher will not give you a clear answer, you need to think and choose by yourself.

Once, the college held a national English speech contest, but at the same time, they could watch the performance of the world-renowned symphony orchestra in the auditorium. How would the students choose? For Nan Yangsheng, he chose to listen to the speech, because he thought watching the speech contest would bring Earn more for yourself.

Of course, different people have different perspectives on problems, and different problems have different ways of dealing with them. In fact, learning how to think about problems and how to choose between dilemmas should also be regarded as one of the university courses, and it is also a kind of self-training.

The introverted Nanyang Sheng is diligent and down-to-earth, working silently for his goals. He cherishes this learning opportunity and regards college life as another new starting point in his life and the most important journey in his life.

Tomorrow is the graduation ceremony, and the favorite topic of the students is to talk about what kind of jobs everyone has found. Sometimes, people will find that those students who have been successful in the student union have neither been admitted to civil servants nor even found a decent job in the end. On the contrary, sometimes, I was surprised to hear that some introverted students were successfully hired by foreign-funded enterprises. Some even became civil servants in ministries and commissions.

Introverts have the characteristics of being diligent and down-to-earth. In order to achieve their goals, they will bear the pressure and work hard alone. From a psychological point of view, introverted personality is not only related to genetic inheritance, but also related to the growth environment in childhood. The reason why many people have an introverted personality is related to the education method of the original family.

In the infinite longing and daydream, time always slips away silently behind you, slips under your feet, and flies past your field of vision... Before you know it, college life is coming to an end.

Nan Yangsheng was not in a hurry to find a job, but wanted to go back to his hometown to visit his parents and his disabled grandfather.

Leaving the campus with a doctorate is the harbinger of the end of student life and the beginning of real social life.

Nan Yangsheng still remembers that when he first entered university, he often walked alone on the huge campus, looking at strange faces, and felt lonely in his heart. Even when interacting with rich children, sometimes at that moment, I feel that I am so small, poor and poor.

Now, it is time to leave this university. Nan Yangsheng suddenly realized that he had fallen into loneliness again.