Wake up（3）

 

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As a Ph.D. in Psychology from Central Plains College of Humanities, Nan Yangsheng is about to graduate and leave the campus. Since he chose to major in psychology, the problem facing him now is that no unit has hired such talents. What awaits him will be ruthless unemployment.

At this time, his mobile phone rang, and the information on the mobile phone came from his alumni, especially those doctoral students who were about to graduate together from different departments but in the same hospital.

Greeting text messages of graduation messages were collected on his mobile phone:

 

Friends, don't say goodbye, we are still destined to go out of school; friends, don't miss me too much, we are too busy to see each other every day. Friends, don't forget me, we are still together in the real struggle! Thanks to the college, let us meet the beautiful campus!

 

Campus is the most beautiful site in life. Here we learn professional knowledge, make close friends, find the direction of development, determine future goals, and complete the transition from dream to reality. If life can be repeated, I would rather meet my old classmates again!

 

Don't look back, it's too regretful; don't say goodbye, it's too sad; don't miss it, it's too sad. Just go quietly like this. Alumni, no matter if I was sorry to you before or you were sorry to me, don't talk too much, let's go!

 

With the end of the graduation ceremony, we are all starting to enter the society. What I want to say most at this time is that everyone cherishes and remembers all the memories we have together. , we have to separate, I hope the road ahead will be smooth sailing for everyone!

 

The road to our dreams may be full of difficulties and obstacles. As long as we work hard and believe in ourselves, we all have enough courage to reach the paradise of our dreams. When parting, tears blurred his eyes. I would like to say to myself and my dear classmates: To appraise the faith, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must go on bravely.

 

The once lively dormitory is now deserted. The classmates who used to love each other are now about to be scattered all over the world. Time can fade each other's memories, but it can't blur the deep friendship. Distance can block the connection with each other, but it cannot block the endless concern.

 

Unforgettable college life, we have become mature and have the courage to take responsibility. On campus, we gain knowledge and learn to be human. The alma mater is deeply affectionate, and the mountains, rivers and rivers here have left our beautiful memories, which I will always remember.

 

Words such as "full of vigor, vigor, and radiance, hard-working students" may never be written on us in the future. We need to meet new challenges and realize new dreams. Greater social responsibilities have been placed on our shoulders. For the better tomorrow of the country and the people, please stick to the beliefs we left behind in college...

 

It would be as absurd and ridiculous to label a certain group simply and rudely, but as far as current university observations are concerned, the group of college students is actually a very twisted group.

Why do college students say that they are basically adults in terms of age, but in fact, all aspects of college students have not kept up with the characteristics that should be possessed in the definition of adults, because they lack social experience, they are an adult group The most innocent and ignorant group in the world.

It is not easy to define the group of college students, but when it comes to college students, some words will always pop up in people's minds: simple, idol drama, star chasing, playing games, self-esteem, newborn calf, energetic, easily deceived, and mood swings , easy to be fooled, stubborn, grumpy, lazy, high-minded, strong self-esteem, lack of self-control and financial management skills.

In short, this group of college students is a group that seems to be adults, but in fact they have not completely broken away from their youth in all aspects. Most college students can't even handle the most basic interpersonal relationships well.

When you are lucky enough to step into the threshold of the university, you will find that the university is not so much a holy land as a melting pot. The university campus is integrated with the world and the society. There are students from all corners of the country, and there are various and colorful activities, forming a unique campus culture. The university campus incorporates the innocence of the middle school age, and also includes all kinds of things in the world and everything in the world. Whether it is common trivial matters in society or unique anecdotes and anecdotes in school, they will always appear in front of you, and the key depends on how you perceive and understand them. As a result, some people became "The Legend of Condor Heroes" after entering the university, while some became "Swordsman", while others could only become "Xiakers".

During the time when Nanyang was living in college, he discovered that this "ivory tower" has edges and corners, and it is possible to bump into it if you are not careful.

In middle school, most students are used to asking the teacher what to do; but in college, the teacher will not give you a clear answer, you need to think and choose by yourself.

Once, the college held a national English speech contest, but at the same time, they could watch the performance of the world-renowned symphony orchestra in the auditorium. How would the students choose? For Nan Yangsheng, he chose to listen to the speech, because he thought watching the speech contest would bring Earn more for yourself.

Of course, different people have different perspectives on problems, and different problems have different ways of dealing with them. In fact, learning how to think about problems and how to choose between dilemmas should also be regarded as one of the university courses, and it is also a kind of self-training.

The introverted Nanyang Sheng is diligent and down-to-earth, working silently for his goals. He cherishes this learning opportunity and regards college life as another new starting point in his life and the most important journey in his life.

Tomorrow is the graduation ceremony, and the favorite topic of the students is to talk about what kind of jobs everyone has found. Sometimes, people will find that those students who have been successful in the student union have neither been admitted to civil servants nor even found a decent job in the end. On the contrary, sometimes, I was surprised to hear that some introverted students were successfully hired by foreign-funded enterprises. Some even became civil servants in ministries and commissions.

Introverts have the characteristics of being diligent and down-to-earth. In order to achieve their goals, they will bear the pressure and work hard alone. From a psychological point of view, introverted personality is not only related to genetic inheritance, but also related to the growth environment in childhood. The reason why many people have an introverted personality is related to the education method of the original family.

In the infinite longing and daydream, time always slips away silently behind you, slips under your feet, and flies past your field of vision... Before you know it, college life is coming to an end.

Nan Yangsheng was not in a hurry to find a job, but wanted to go back to his hometown to visit his parents and his disabled grandfather.

Leaving the campus with a doctorate is the harbinger of the end of student life and the beginning of real social life.

Nan Yangsheng still remembers that when he first entered university, he often walked alone on the huge campus, looking at strange faces, and felt lonely in his heart. Even when interacting with rich children, sometimes at that moment, I feel that I am so small, poor and poor.

Now, it is time to leave this university. Nan Yangsheng suddenly realized that he had fallen into loneliness again.

Wake up（1）

 

Chapter 1 Graduation

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In the midsummer of July, there is no cloud in the blue sky. In summer, the green leaves flutter in the warm wind, and the shade trees on the roadside are lush. Although there are no magpies on the old locust tree, the cicadas keep chirping, and the frogs in the pond sing in unison, as if they are boasting of their seasons.

Spring has gone with the falling flowers. In the summer campus, although there are no flat fields and soft rice seedlings in the hometown, you can see green clumps of banana leaves swaying in the wind, blooming on the grass. Full of colorful wildflowers. Red, green, purple, pink, yellow, like brilliant spots embroidered on a large green carpet. Bees, which like to live in groups, fly in groups among the flowers.

The summer on the campus is quiet, verdant, beautiful and colorful. There are always charming colors, a little dark but romantic.

Graduation dates vary from university to university, but usually around July each year. Under normal circumstances, the graduation certificate is issued from the end of June to the beginning of July, but the time for issuing the graduation certificate may be different for each university, but the graduation certificate is generally produced and stored in the school one month before the student leaves school. Students can go to the school's official website to check the time for issuing graduation certificates. Adult university diplomas will change with the school system, and the time for issuing diplomas is not certain. Graduates who need to obtain a graduation certificate in advance can apply to the school in advance.

He had almost forgotten about this period of time. Because he will leave this campus soon in this July of this year. He has obtained a Ph.D., and tomorrow, the school will hold a graduation ceremony.

In July, the morning sun, through the glass and under the reflection of the marble, warmed the air. Summer skies are unpredictable, cloudy at times, low clouds that seem to call to action, and the sun shining through.

On this summer night, the stars twinkled in the sky, the cool breeze dispelled the residual heat of the day, and the campus was silent. The full moon like a silver mirror hangs high, pouring the clear brilliance like water into the chirping of frogs and insects. At this time, the cool breeze will gently diffuse the troubles and worries of the day and night.

After passing through the beauty of spring, we ushered in the prosperity of summer, which is so colorful and gorgeous, brilliant and warm.

He remembered the scene when he first entered the university.

Stepping into the campus, you will see a U-shaped teaching building. There is a flag stand in front of the south building, and a bright five-star national flag is flying high on the flagpole. In front of the flag stand is a large and wide playground covered with green carpets. As soon as get out of class was over, the students rushed to the playground and started playing games. Some were playing table tennis, some were playing rope skipping, and some were playing basketball.

The most striking thing is the two banyan trees on both sides of the playground. From a distance, it looks like two soldiers guarding the university. The banyan tree in spring will take out new branches, grow new leaves, and pile one cluster on top of the other. Many leaves seem to show us its full vitality. The banyan tree will attract some birds returning from the south to chirp and sing beautiful songs on the branches.

The campus is very beautiful, it is a beautiful big garden. As soon as you enter the campus, you will see a large garden in front of you. There are many flowers blooming in the flowerbed, including rhododendrons, roses, morning glory... one flower blooms before it withers and the other blooms. He remembered very clearly that every morning, when he walked into the campus, he would be intoxicated by the fragrance of flowers rushing towards him.

At this time, he came under the banyan tree. He is an introverted young student.

When we were in college, there must be a few introverted friends around us. They often have the characteristics of taciturn and do not like to communicate with others. Because these introverted college students are unwilling to express their opinions, it is difficult for us to understand their inner thoughts, so many people subconsciously feel that introverted college students are often even less promising.

Most people think that introverted college students have slow thinking and lack of inner emotions, but in fact this is a wrong feeling.

Introverted college students don't like to express their thoughts, but it doesn't mean that they lack ideas in their inner world. There is an idiom in China that can describe those introverted college students around us, that is great wisdom and foolishness. They look dull, but they actually have prejudices in their hearts, but they just don't want to express it in front of everyone.

Those college students who are introverted often leave us with a dull impression because they don't like to communicate with others. Usually in our eyes, introverted college students are relatively dull, but in fact they are very emotional.

So are introverted college students really as hopeless as we imagined? Maybe we are all wrong, in fact, those college students who are introverted are more likely to be dark horses in college!

Due to their lack of security, they are often reluctant to reveal their true thoughts in front of strangers. When you get acquainted with an introverted college student, you will find that his inner emotions are even richer than your own.

Introverted college students are not easy to blindly follow the crowd and follow the crowd. They often have firm goals

In college, we often find that some students blindly follow the crowd. When they see others preparing for CET-4, CET-6, public examination or postgraduate entrance examination, even if they have no such plan, they will join in the fun, but the result can be imagined, few people will succeed.

He is a successful man. His name is Nanyang Sheng. He is 23 years old and was born on July 4, 1997.

Nanyang students not only completed their university studies, but also obtained a master's degree, and later became a Ph.D. in Psychology at the Central Plains College of Humanities. Tomorrow is the graduation ceremony.

After the graduation ceremony, he will leave the university.

In the past, during class, there was no sound of students reading aloud on campus. This is a university, so it is naturally different from the children in that small school. To the north of the playground is a solemn teaching building, which is the main place for college students to study in groups. The library to the south of the teaching building is a small world for these college students to increase their knowledge after class.

To the east of the playground is the student dormitory, where students rest. Nanyang students live in the student dormitory building. There are fitness equipment in the student dormitory building for exercising. There is also a small supermarket where you can buy some sweets, pastries and daily necessities.

After walking through the big playground, you can see the small garden on the right. There is no fence in the garden, and only a circle of dwarf rhododendrons are planted, with dense leaves, which are not blooming at this time. But in spring, when the flower fairy comes, the rhododendrons are all blooming with smiling faces, red and green, so beautiful. Look at the Chinese rose, although it is autumn, it is also blooming very well. The rose has many petals, layer upon layer, and all the flowers are like elf princesses in wedding dresses, so beautiful. In the flower bed on the left, the banana tree planted in it has withered. There was also a creeper growing on the wall next to it, and it was also leaning on the wall at this moment. Come summer, though, it comes back to life again.

A path was built in the garden, which was winding and paved with stones. Nan Yangsheng walked along this path and came to a hexagonal pavilion. On this summer night, he seemed a little lonely.

Sitting in the hexagonal booth, he started to turn on his mobile phone to check the online news of the campus today.

According to news from the campus network group, a third-year student, Ah Wen, was suddenly arrested. He is a college student majoring in electronics. Awen is the founder of the "Room X" chat group. He is suspected of threatening several female college students to make sex videos and spread them in the chat group to obtain illegal income. He was about to graduate in one year, and he was busy preparing his graduation project. When Ah Wen was arrested, the classmates around him were greatly surprised. They said that Ah Wen was introverted, usually not very talkative, did not like to participate in club activities, and did not like to cause trouble. He was praised by teachers and students for his "practical work" because of his serious process of publishing papers.

Nanyang Sheng turned off his phone and closed his eyes.