Wake up（6）

 

6

 

Students can end their studies in this school or if they meet the school's requirements and pass the audit. The graduation certificate is a certificate issued by the school to prove the learning experience after the student has completed all the courses given by the school and passed the grades after four years of study.

The graduation ceremony of Zhongyuan College of Humanities officially started. Graduate representatives of each department (one for each academic system) lined up and waited in the audience. When the master of ceremonies rolls the name, representatives of graduates from each school and department will come to the stage in sequence. The dean will pull the cap tassels for the graduate representatives and issue degree certificates. Nan Yangsheng received a doctorate certificate.

That morning, the Secretary of the Party Committee of the School of Humanities presided over the ceremony.

In his speech, the secretary pointed out that Central Plains College of Humanities has a long history and profound heritage, and the excellent style of study created by predecessors and the accumulated cultural traditions have been passed down from generation to generation and will last forever. Since its establishment in 2012, the School of Humanities has adhered to the fundamental task of cultivating people through morality, adhering to the concept of "combining Chinese and Western cultures, connecting ancient and modern times, permeating arts and sciences, and comprehensive innovation", and has established a team of high-level teachers who are dedicated to educating people and concentrating on academics. A large number of outstanding talents have produced a series of important academic achievements. The School of Humanities consciously serves the grand cause of the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation, actively contributes to the construction of a world-class university with Chinese characteristics, and has achieved remarkable development achievements.

The secretary expressed the hope that the School of Humanities will persist in cultivating souls and educating people with the socialist ideology with Chinese characteristics in the new era, comprehensively implement the party's education policy, carry out innovative ideological and political work for teachers and students, and strive to promote Chinese-style modernization, create a new form of human civilization, and build independent The knowledge system is closely integrated, committed to strengthening the spiritual power to realize the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation, and constantly cultivating socialist builders and successors with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, art and labor; Adhere to the fundamental task of cultivating people by morality, serving the country as the highest pursuit, taking discipline construction as the foundation of development, deepening reform as a strong driving force, and strengthening party building as a strong guarantee, insisting on doing cultural concepts for the people, setting the trend of the times To understand the changes of the past and the present, to be the first voice of thought, to realize the high-quality development of the humanities; to vigorously carry forward the glorious revolutionary tradition and fine cultural tradition, to strengthen the confidence that "Chinese education can cultivate masters", and to encourage and guide teachers to be students to learn, A gentleman who works as a person and as a person.

In his speech, the Secretary expressed his heartfelt thanks to the previous school leaders, government agencies, departments, brothers and departments, as well as leaders and friends from all walks of life who have cared and supported the development of the college for many years, and extended cordial greetings to the alumni, teachers, students and staff of the college.

Bai Yu, the dean of the college, made an important speech at the graduation ceremony, but what he talked about was his own reading experience. He said: "I have many hobbies, and the biggest hobby is reading. Reading has become a way of life for me. Books accompany my growth."

Dean Bai Yu said:

When I was a child, my mother took me to Xinhua Bookstore to buy the comic book "The Legend of Yue Fei". After I came back, I told me stories about serving the country faithfully and tattooing my mother-in-law. I have been remembering the four words "serving the country with loyalty" from that time until now, and it is also the goal I have pursued in my life. the

Just after the New Year in 1969, I went to the countryside to jump in the queue. I was under 16 at the time. I carried two heavy suitcases full of books. I read all the literary classics at that time that I could find, and what I can blurt out now is what I read at that time. I loved reading at that time, and at night I lit a kerosene lamp, and it was half the night just by looking at it.

My favorite book is "The Communist Manifesto". If you feel uneasy in your heart, study the classics and read the "Communist Manifesto" several times. When I was in college, I discussed the study of the "Das Kapital" course with my classmates in the economics department of the university, and shared my research experience. When reading the original works of Marxism, one should pay attention to the preface, postscript, notes at the bottom of the pages and the appendix at the end of the book, as well as the content of the correspondence between Marx and Engels on "Das Kapital". Read it over and over again. At that time, I read a lot of Marxist-Leninist works.

At the age of 15, I already have the ability to think independently. Through constant re-examination in the process of reading, I have achieved negation of negation, learning new things by reviewing the past, and gradually feel that Marxism is indeed the truth, and that the leadership of the Communist Party of China is indeed the choice of the people and the foundation of history. Choose, the road of socialism we take is indeed a road that must be taken. This kind of conclusion drawn through self-thinking and understanding will be firm.

The students seemed not interested in President Bai Yu's speech.

Dean Bai Yu was born in Beihuang. Suffering from PTSD, that is, post-traumatic stress disorder, the nightmare he experienced as a teenager made him a mental patient. He always wants to take revenge on others for everything he has encountered. He is timid while vicious, and behind his self-confidence Inferiority, cover up your fear with arrogance. From a young age, he had "great ambitions" and began to plan how to get to the top of power. The political dictatorship he embraced could be a curse masquerading as a blessing. To understand what kind of person Dean Bai Yu is, one has to examine his early trauma and growth process.

Born in 1953, Bai Yu experienced the 10-year Cultural Revolution in his youth when his personality was forming. His father was an old Red Army man who once held a high position. But after the founding of the People's Republic of China, he was persecuted, and Bai Yu was classified as a "child of the gangster". He was detained and interrogated many times when he was young.

In 1968, Mao Zedong launched the "Go to the Countryside" movement, and Bai Yu, like thousands of educated youths, was driven to the countryside to work in the countryside. At the beginning, he did not adapt to the difficult life of "going to the countryside" and fled back to the city.

But unlike many of the generation that went through the Cultural Revolution and had family members who suffered persecution, Bai Yu seems to be more grateful for that experience. He said, "This is the starting point of my life. This is also the point of my life in adversity. It is the time when I need help from all aspects in my life. The local people extended a selfless helping hand to me. What I have formed now Many basic concepts and many basic characteristics formed were also formed at that time.”

Bai Yu was harmed by the Cultural Revolution but did not hate the Cultural Revolution. This seemingly contradictory fact is not so difficult to understand, because like many young people at the time, Mao Zedong's spiritual influence on him far exceeded his own family. Even if his father was persecuted and imprisoned, it didn't mean he thought Mao was wrong. It can be said that he is actually Mao's child, and Mao is his spiritual father.

From the perspective of a psychiatrist, it is not unusual for Bai Yu, a victim, to respond positively to his perpetrator. This is one of the ways traumatized people protect themselves. His psychological defense is to identify with the aggressor. Spiritual growth, finding new possibilities in life, actively problem-solving, and finding meaning and purpose fit all the hallmarks of post-traumatic growth.

Bai Yu had applied to join the party 10 times. Before joining the party, he had experienced some ideological struggles. He said: "In the past, talking about faith seemed to be a very empty thing. I think the growth experience of our generation of youth at that time was that the Red Guards were followed by excitement. It was an emotion and an atmosphere; when it came to the Cultural Revolution, ideals were shattered. , and finally became even a kind of nihility. In China at that time, joining the Communist Party was almost the only choice for any young person who wanted to embark on the road of success."

In dealing with the impact of the Cultural Revolution, Bai Yu and his close friend of the second generation of the red family who were also persecuted adopted completely different methods. While other second-generation reds were busy dating, drinking, watching movies, and reading Western literature, Bai Yu chose to "become redder than red". His father was rehabilitated after the Cultural Revolution and continued to serve as a high-ranking CCP official. Bai Yu believed that only the CCP had the ability to maintain China's social stability and national power, and believed that only the second generation of reds like him were qualified to control the country laid down by their fathers. country.

Bai Yu is a pragmatist and a realist, but at the same time he is also an out-and-out elitist, a person full of ideological beliefs, and a nationalist.

Dean Bai Yu's speech received only sporadic applause.

Guests from universities, academies of sciences, academies of social sciences and other fraternal universities and academic research institutions, heads of relevant school units, former leaders of the former School of Humanities, representatives of alumni, teachers and students attended the graduation ceremony. Others attended the conference online.

Hong Wenxuan, professor of sociology, made a speech as a representative of teachers and students.

Professor Hong Wenxuan said: "Social history is an ancient and young science, which plays an important role in improving the cultural quality of the whole people and communicating science and humanities. Culture is the blood and soul of a nation, and cultural confidence is the foundation of a country and a nation. The most basic, deepest, and most enduring force in development. The humanities are not only composed of individual intellectual disciplines, but many humanities are an organic combination, sharing the inner essence of moistening and silent.”

She hopes that young students can gain the courage to express, question, love and explore from humanistic education and tradition. Teach yourself to be a person of thought, flesh and blood, and a person of faith. As a young student, you must continue the torch of the predecessors and write the humanistic spirit on the land of the motherland in the new era.

Psychology professor Shen Zhirui's speech was the shortest, but received the longest applause.

Professor Shen said:

I would like to present a few Chinese idioms to the graduates.

Good old Minqiu, good at learning and near wisdom. ---In order to learn, you should study hard and study hard to be successful.

A scholar must be resolute, and a scholar should know first. --- Be persevering and broad-minded, possess great power and insight.

Aspirations are saved, and aspirations are based on virtue. ---Keep in mind the great cause of helping the world, create the great cause of benefiting the people, and act on the basis of morality.

Riding the wind and waves, the future is bright. ---With lofty aspirations, not afraid of difficulties, and bravely move forward, the future achievements will be brilliant.

Professor Shen raised his hands, waved them and said to the graduates:

Wave a hand, don't mention parting, just want to meet again.

After the graduation ceremony, psychology professor Shen Zhirui created a group of graduates. He wanted to use this group to understand what students experienced after graduation. This is also the subject of his research on group psychology.

Five doctoral students who just graduated from the Central Plains College of Humanities joined this Weibo group. The five doctors are Nan Yangsheng, Ph.D. in Psychology, Qin Xiling, Ph.D. in Sociology, Lin Beixue, Ph.D. in Medicine, Shen Haidong, Ph.D. in Politics and Law, and Zhou Yuzhong, Ph.D. in Management. Among them, Nan Yangsheng, Ph.D. in Psychology, is the favorite student of Professor Shen Zhirui, and Qin Xiling, Ph.D. in Sociology, is the most valued student of Professor Hong Wenxuan.

醒悟（6）

 

6

 

学生在本学校或者达到学校的规定要求并通过审核，可以结束在校学习。毕业证是学生通过四年的学习，学习完学校所给出的全部课程并成绩达到合格，由办学机构颁发的用来证明学习经历的证明。

中原人文学院毕业典礼正式开始了。各系所毕业生代表(每学制1名)依序出列在台下等候。司仪唱名时，各院系所毕业生代表依序上台。由院长为毕业生代表拨帽穗，颁发学位证书。南阳生领到了博士学位证书。

那天上午，人文学院党委书记主持了典礼。

书记在致辞中指出，中原人文学院历史悠久、底蕴深厚，前辈学者开创的优良学风和积淀的文化传统薪火相传、历久弥新。自2012年成立以来，人文学院坚持立德树人根本任务，秉承“中西融会，古今贯通，文理渗透，综合创新”理念，建立了一支倾心育人、潜心学术的高水平师资队伍，培养了一大批优秀人才，产出了一系列重要学术成果。人文学院自觉服务中华民族伟大复兴的宏伟事业，积极贡献中国特色世界一流大学建设，取得了令人瞩目的发展成绩。

书记表示，希望人文学院坚持用新时代中国特色社会主义思想铸魂育人，全面贯彻党的教育方针，创新开展师生思想政治工作，努力把推进中国式现代化、创造人类文明新形态和建构自主知识体系紧密结合起来，致力于增强实现中华民族伟大复兴的精神力量，不断培养德智体美劳全面发展的社会主义建设者和接班人；立足“两个大局”、心怀“国之大者”，坚持把立德树人作为根本任务，把服务国家作为最高追求，把学科建设作为发展根基，把深化改革作为强大动力，把加强党的建设作为坚强保证，坚持为人民做学问理念，立时代潮头，通古今变化，发思想先声，实现人文学科高质量发展；大力弘扬光荣革命传统和优良文化传统，坚定“中国教育是能够培养出大师来的”自信，激励引导教师做学生为学、为事、为人的大先生。

书记在致辞中向多年来关心支持学院发展的历届学校领导、机关部处、兄弟院系，以及社会各界的领导和朋友致以衷心感谢，向广大校友和全院师生员工致以亲切问候。

学院院长白羽在毕业典礼上作了一个重要讲话，他谈论的却是自己的读书体会。他说：“我爱好挺多，最大的爱好是读书，读书已成为我的一种生活方式。书，陪伴着我的成长。”

白羽院长说：

 

童年时，母亲带着我，到新华书店买《岳飞传》小人书。回来之后，就给我讲精忠报国、岳母刺字的故事。“精忠报国”四个字，我从那个时候一直记到现在，它也是我一生追求的目标。　　

1969年新年刚过，我就到农村插队。那时我还不到16岁。我带着两个很沉的箱子，箱子里装的满满都是书。当时的文学经典，能找到的我都看了，到现在脱口而出的都是那时读到的东西。我那时爱看书，晚上点着煤油灯，一看就是半宿。

我最爱看的书是《共产党宣言》。如果心里觉得不踏实，就去钻研经典著作，多看几遍《共产党宣言》。在大学时期，我就与大学经济系的同学讨论起《资本论》课程的学习，分享自己的研读体会。读马克思主义原著要重视序、跋以及书页下面和书后附录的注释，还有马克思、恩格斯之间有关《资本论》的通信内容。要反复读，用心读。那时候，我读了很多马列著作。

15岁的我已经有了独立思考能力，在读书过程中通过不断重新审视，达到否定之否定、温故而知新，慢慢觉得马克思主义确实是真理，中国共产党领导确实是人民的选择、历史的选择，我们走的社会主义道路确实是一条必由之路。这种通过自己思考、认识得出的结论，就会坚定不移。

 

    同学们对白羽院长的讲话似乎不感兴趣。

白羽院长出生于北荒。患有PTSD，即创伤后应激障碍症，少年时经历的噩梦让他成为了一个精神病人，他无时无刻不想把他自己遭遇的一切报复给其他人，他在狠毒的同时胆怯，在自信的背后自卑，用狂傲掩盖自己的恐惧。从年轻时就有着“卓越的野心”，并开始规划如何走上权力的峰顶。他信奉的政治独裁可能是伪装成祝福的诅咒。要了解白羽院长是一个什么样的人，就不得不审视他早年受到的创伤以及成长的历程。

生于1953年的白羽在他人格成型的青少年时期经历了长达10年的文化大革命。他的父亲是个老红军，曾位居高位。但那建国后受到了迫害，白羽也因此被归为“黑帮子弟”。他在年少时就被多次遭到关押审查。

1968年，毛泽东发起了“上山下乡”运动，白羽和万千知青一样，被赶到农村下乡劳动。他一开始并不适应艰苦的“上山下乡”生活，并曾逃回过城里。  

但与许多经历文革并有家人遭受过迫害的那一代人不同，白羽似乎更多地是对那段经历却怀有感恩之情。他说“这是我人生的启承点，这也是我人生逆境中的，是人生中我最需要各方面帮助的时候，当地人民给我伸出了无私的帮助之手，我现在所形成的很多基本观念，形成的很多基本特点，也是在那时候形成的。”

白羽受到文革之害却不痛恨文革，这一看似矛盾之处其实并不那么难以理解，因为和当时的许多年轻人一样，毛泽东对他的精神影响力远超越他自己的家人。就算他的父亲受到迫害，还坐牢了，这并不意味着他就认为毛是错的。可以这么讲，他其实就是毛的孩子，毛是他的精神之父。

从精神病学专家的角度分析，作为受害者的白羽对他的加害者产生积极的回应并不稀奇。这是受到心理创伤的人自我保护的方式之一。他的心理防御方式是认同侵犯者。精神成长、找到生活中的新可能性、积极解决问题、寻找意义和目的，这符合创伤后成长的所有表现。

白羽曾申请入党10次，在入党前，他曾经历过一番思想挣扎。他说:“过去讲信仰，好像是一种很虚的东西。我觉得我们当时那一代青年成长履历就是红卫兵时代跟着激动，那是一种情绪，那是一种氛围；到了文化革命理想破灭，最后变得甚至是一种虚无的。在那时的中国，加入共产党几乎是任何一个希望走上成功道路的年轻人唯一的选择。”

在应对文革带来的冲击上，白羽和他这位同样是家人遭到迫害的红二代密友采取了截然不同的方式。在其他红二代忙着谈恋爱、喝酒、看电影、读西方文学的时候，白羽选择“变得比红还红”。他的父亲在文革后被平反并继续担任中共高官，白羽相信只有中共才有能力维持中国的社会稳定和国家力量，并认为只有他这样的红二代才有资格掌控这个由他们的父辈打下的江山。

白羽是一个实用主义者和现实主义者，但同时他也是一位不折不扣的精英主义者,是一个充满了意识形态信仰的人，一个民族主义者。

白羽院长的讲话只获得了零星的一些掌声。

来自各大学、科学院、社会科学院等兄弟高校和学术研究机构的嘉宾，学校相关单位负责人，原人文学院老领导和校友代表、师生代表等出席了毕业典礼。还有一些人则通过在线方式参加了大会。

社会学教授洪文宣作为师生代表作了发言。

洪文宣教授说：“社会史是一门既古老又年轻的学问，在提高全民文化素质、沟通科学与人文方面发挥着重要作用。文化是民族的血脉和灵魂，文化自信是一个国家、一个民族发展中最基本、最深沉、最持久的力量。人文学科不仅是由一个个知识性的学科构成，诸多人文学科是有机的整体组合，共同具备润物无声的内在本质。”

她希望青年学子能从人文教育与传统中获得表达、质疑、爱和探索的勇气。教会自己做一个有思想的人、有血肉的人和有信念的人，作为青年学子，要接续前辈学人的薪火，将人文精神书写在新时代的祖国大地上。

心理学教授沈志睿的发言最为简短，但获得掌声的时间最长。

沈教授说：

 

我想给毕业的同学们赠送几句中国成语。

好古敏求，好学近智。---为学应穷根究理，勤学方能有成。

士必弘毅，士先器识。---做人能坚忍且心志宽广，有大器与识见。

志存开济，志道据德。---心存济世之大业，开创利民之大业，处事当以道德为依据。

乘风破浪，前程似锦。---志向高远，不畏艰难，奋勇向前，未来成就必辉煌灿烂。

 

沈教授举起双手，摆动着对毕业生们说：

 

挥一挥手,不提离别,只愿再聚首。

 

毕业典礼结束后，心理学教授沈志睿创建了一个毕业生群，他想通过这个群了解学生毕业后所经历的事。这也是他关注群体心理研究的课题。

刚从中原人文学院毕业的五个博士生入了这个微博群。这五个博士是心理学博士南阳生、社会学博士秦西岭，还有医学博士林北雪、政法学博士申海东和管理学博士周豫中。其中心理学博士南阳生是心理学教授沈志睿的得意门生，社会学博士秦西岭则是社会学教授洪文宣最器重的学子。

 

 

Wake up（5）

 

5

 

The campus in summer is cool and quiet, and it is a clean place away from the glitz and hustle and bustle. Here, there is only free and fresh breath without impurities. Of course, there are also chirping of cicadas and birds, as well as the freshness and enchantment of wild roses and roses. This is a rare holy place and secluded residence in the busy city. But the strong and restless desire for a job is stronger than the rich fragrance of flowers.

The attention of Nanyang students is not on the graduation ceremony held tomorrow, but on the road to job hunting tomorrow.

The campus, the mountains of books and the sea of learning are the land where many students work hard. It was a beautiful summer, and the young female college students were rushing to put on gorgeous floral dresses before the hot summer. Their youthful beauty and vigor are swaying under the sky of the campus. Summer is an amorous season. The campus is full of love and vitality. In this season, the minds of young students are like a field of green grass, inadvertently greening the entire campus.

College students have started packing their bags. The students who are about to graduate will soon leave their long-awaited university palace, reaping the success and joy of their academic career. Some people say that this is the season of parting, because every year at this time, a group of young students say goodbye to their dear teachers and friends one by one, leave school, and open up another new and strange world. Therefore, in this season, many people are always deliberately avoiding those sad Tang poetry and Song Ci, and they always drink sad beer but pretend to be proud. Several classmates gathered in the dormitory again this evening and raised their glasses. Their arrival drove away Nanyangsheng's sense of loneliness.

After drinking, it is always easy to remind people of many past events, and many details of the past events are always related to the banyan tree on campus. Those two big banyan trees are the witness of the growth of the students. There are often romantic students whispering under the banyan tree, leaving behind their pure first love and passionate youthful memories. Perhaps, the meaning of a student's first love is not only that. The understanding of life and society may take their whole life.

Passionate college students will say: The real cold window gives birth to real hope.

A romantic male college student laughed and said to a beautiful female college student: Don't fascinate me with gentle calls, don't make my heart beat with Tingting's beautiful figure, and don't torture me with affectionate eyes. We're both graduating and going our separate ways. Separation will make life easier and hope will start again.

This romantic male college student is Qin Xiling, Ph.D. in Sociology, Central Plains College of Humanities. Qin Xiling is a good friend of Nanyang Sheng.

Qin Xiling and Nanyangsheng have very different personalities. Nanyangsheng is introverted, while Qin Xiling is bold and unconstrained.

That beautiful female college student is Lin Beixue, a doctor of medicine, a girl from Northeast China. She is Qin Xiling's girlfriend.

Qin Xiling took out a few books from the bag and handed them to Nan Yangsheng: "I bought these books specially for Bei Xue. After reading these books, she fell in love with me. Ha, I have already deceived Bei Xue I got it. Bei Xue said that she has read these books N times, and her friends have read them too. Bei Xue suggested that I give these books to you as a graduation gift, and I hope you can find the girlfriend you like after graduation.”

Nan Yangsheng took the book from Qin Xiling.

Lin Beixue smiled and said: "Nanyang Sheng, these four youth novels about college life are written realistically and wonderfully. They look really good. You are a doctor of psychology, so you should understand girls' psychology. When we meet, I can see your girlfriend."

Qin Xiling said: "These four books are all related to university campus life. Although they are very old, they were first published about 20 years ago, but they don't feel outdated when reading, because the thoughts and lives of college students are in the forefront. The forefront of the times. Of course, after I went to college, I didn’t have so many wonderful stories, and I didn’t have so many love stories, but after I got to know Beixue, I can still verify the descriptions in the book many times, and sometimes I feel that there are more than nothing. and."

Lin Beixue added: "The authors of these books are also young people. Although the ability to write stories may still be a little immature, and there may be loopholes in some plots, after all, it is an era when publishing books is far less easy than it is now. These writing styles are still very good. Compared with the current books, those e-books with sweet texts don’t look good.”

Nan Yangsheng took the book and looked at the titles: "A Tsinghua Girl's Extraordinary Diary", "College Girl's Car Downstairs", "Youth with Tears", "Fudan Love". He casually flipped through a few more pages and said, "Thank you, I will read it carefully."

When the dormitory became quiet, Nanyang began to read "The Extraordinary Diary of a Tsinghua Girl". The author of this book, Yaya, recorded her postgraduate career at Tsinghua University in the form of a diary. A female graduate student who was admitted to Tsinghua University was attractive, educated, and had a Beijing native boyfriend recommended by her teacher. And she is not content with such a simple love life, she looks for new excitement outside her boyfriend, meets new men, writes about the ugly behavior of many men, and also writes about her inner world feelings and desires.

The language in the book is plain without too many explicit words, and there is no lack of humor. It records all kinds of people in first-class universities and Beijing's first-tier cities, some are dull and smart, some are old and treacherous, although the life of a graduate student is not the same as that of a doctoral student. , But Nanyang students learned about the life of first-class university students from another side.

Nan Yangsheng began to read "College Girl Downstairs Car", which is a novel that is not easy to read. Several college girls, with different temperaments, have their own pursuits, and they have made efforts and prices for them. All of them are in the circle of life of ethics and morality, interpreting modern lifestyles, colliding with the fortress of morality, and distorting social trends. ... They are the alternatives in the campus, the darlings in the society, and at the same time the epitome of the campus culture in the era of change. They are a mirror. Nanyang students can not only see themselves clearly in the mirror, but also observe the entire campus culture and social life... He read this book, as if he could grow up a few years old. It has an impact on traditions and potential dangers. notice.

Nan Yangsheng couldn't fall asleep, so he simply got up and went to the corridor outside the dormitory building, where there were benches for rest and bright street lights.

Nan Yangsheng began to read another book "Youth with Tears Flowing Down", which is a modern urban campus literature with a bit of sadness. The story describes a group of campus characters in the university. He contracted to operate the school's computer room and water bar, and he has a sense of economic superiority among the cash-strapped students. A network of people was compiled, and they fought openly and secretly with each other. Usually ignorant, but able to keep research, they dated many girlfriends, but also reaped sincere love.

There are many Sichuan dialects in the book. Judging from the story line and writing style, the author's writing skills are not inferior. But it still made Nanyang Sheng close his eyes, he seemed to think of more things that he didn't pay attention to before.

After a while, he opened his eyes and picked up another book "Fudan Love", which is a collection of short stories about love written by Fudan students who have lived or are living in Fudan Garden. Many Fudan students show the style and atmosphere of Fudan through stories, and the thoughts of Fudan people who live in it. Although the same love story may also happen in other schools, the stories shown in the novel Other things are not available in Fudan University.

In fact, the love life of students on the university campus has never stopped, and it has been staged on campus. But Nan Yangsheng seems to have no relationship with love, he has given up many opportunities, he will never be in love with each other before the flowers under the moon. He didn't have a romantic first love affair like glue, let alone a life experience of spending time and money.

In fact, there are also female college students who have just started to flirt with each other and flirt with him, but Nan Yangsheng doesn't flirt. It's not that he doesn't understand love, but that he doesn't want to fall into the pit of love. Among his classmates, there are some talented boys who have become the objects of the Lihun Girls, but they are often involved in the turbulent waves of jealousy.

Everyday vows, life and death will never change, they are all peach blossoms in flowing water.

The love of children and the lovesickness of red beans are just a dream.

There are almost no examples of love on campus that will last forever and be together for a long time. Most of the fly-by-wing couples who follow each other like shadows often go their own way, knowing how to change.

However, Nan Yangsheng is still so confident in himself. In fact, sometimes people are really helpless, and that has become the only motivation for him to cheer up. He doesn't believe in love on campus. He sees the college campus as a big stage, a stage that belongs to you. He won't play the role of wit and beauty, and he doesn't care if all the spotlights will come to him. All he has to do is try his best to play his role well, an ordinary and progressive student.

Believe in yourself, maybe you are right.

醒悟（5）

 

5

 

夏天的校园，清凉，静谧，是远离浮华与喧嚣的一块净地。在这里，唯有不含杂质的自由清新的呼吸。当然，这里也有知了和小鸟的鸣叫，还有野蔷薇和月季花的清新和妖娆。这，是闹市中不可多得的圣地和幽居。但旺盛的不安分的求职欲比群花馥郁的香味还要浓烈。

南阳生的注意力并不在明天举办的毕业典礼，而是明天复明天的求职之路。

校园，书山学海是莘莘学子辛勤耕耘的土地。这是一个美丽的夏天，年轻的女大学生们赶在酷夏之前，已争相穿上绚烂的花衣。她们青春的靓丽与朝气在校园的天空下尽情摇曳。夏天是一个多情的季节，校园四处萌动着爱意，散放着勃勃生机。在这个季节，年轻学子的心事像一地绿色的小草，不经意间便碧绿了整个校园。

大学生们已开始整理行李。即将毕业的学子们很快就要离开心仪已久的大学殿堂了，收获着学涯拼搏的成功和喜悦。有人说，这是离别的季节，因为每年这个时候，都有一批年轻的学子与他们亲爱的师友一一作别，离校而去，开辟另一块崭新而又陌生的天地。所以，在这个季节，许多人总在有意回避那些伤感的唐诗宋词，总是喝着伤情的啤酒却故作豪气。几个同学在这个晚上又聚集在宿舍里，举起了酒杯。他们的到来，赶走了南阳生的孤独感。

　　酒后，总容易让人想起许多往事，而往事中的许多细节，总与校园的榕树有关。那两棵大榕树是学子们成长的见证。榕树下常有恋情学子在细语，留下了他们纯洁的初恋和多情的青春记忆。也许，学子初恋的意义还不仅仅如此。对生活和社会的理解，或许要搭上他们一生的时间。

充满激情的大学生会说：真正的寒窗，催生着真正的希望。

一个浪漫的男大学生嬉笑着对一个漂亮的女大学生说：不要用温柔的呼唤使我着迷，不要用婷婷的倩影使我心动，不要用含情的目光使我受尽苦刑。我们都 毕业了，将各奔东西。离别，会让生活变得简单，希望也会重新开始。

这个浪漫的男大学生就是中原人文学院社会学博士秦西岭。秦西岭是南阳生的好朋友。

秦西岭与南阳生的性格差异很大，南阳生内向，秦西岭豪放。

那个漂亮的女大学生是医学博士林北雪，是个东北姑娘。她是秦西岭的女友。

　　秦西岭从包里取出几本书递给南阳生：“这些书是我以前专门买来送给北雪的，她看了这些书后，就与我相好啦。哈，我已将北雪骗到手了。北雪说，这些书她看了N遍，她的朋友们也都看过。北雪建议我将这些书送给你当毕业礼物，希望你毕业后能找到心仪的女朋友。”

南阳生从秦西岭手里接过了书。

林北雪笑着说：“南阳生，这四本描写大学生活的青春小说，写的真实而精彩。看起来真是不错。你是心理学博士，应该了解女生的心理，哈，希望我们以后再见面时，能见到你的女朋友。”

秦西岭说：“这四本书都是和大学校园生活相关的，虽然年代久远，首次出版大约都距今20年，但是读起来并不觉得过时，因为大学生的思想和生活本身就走在时代前列。当然我上大学后，并没有这么多精彩的故事，也没这么多爱情往事，但是我认识了北雪后，很多时候还是能验证书中的描述，有些时候觉得有过之而无不及。”

林北雪补充道：“这些书的作者也都是年轻人，虽然编故事的能力可能还有些稚嫩，有些情节上可能有漏洞，但那毕竟是一个出书远不如现在容易的时代，能写下这些文笔还是很不错的。相比当下的书，那些甜文电子书，看起来并不爽”。

南阳生接过书，看了一下书名：《一个清华女生的非常日记》《大学女生楼下de轿车》《青春泪流满面》《复旦的爱情》。他又随手翻阅了几页，便说道：“谢谢，我会认真拜读的。”

当宿舍安静下来后，南阳生开始翻阅《一个清华女生的非常日记》。这本书的作者亚亚以日记的形式记录了自己的清华研究生生涯，一个考入清华的女研究生，有姿色，有学历，还有老师推荐的一个北京土著男朋友。而她并不甘于这样朴素的爱情生活，在男友之外寻找新刺激，结识新的男人，写出了很多男人的丑态，也写出自己内心世界感受和欲望。

书中的语言平实没有太多露骨文字，而且不乏幽默，记录了一流高校和北京一线城市中形形色色的人物，有的木讷聪明，有的老奸巨滑，虽然研究生的生活和博士生还不太一样，但是南阳生从另一面了解到一流大学学生的生活。

南阳生又开始翻阅《大学女生楼下de轿车》，这是一部读起来并不轻松的小说。几位大学女生，性情各异，有各自的追求，并为之付出努力和代价，所有人都在伦理、道德的生命光圈中，演绎着现代生活方式，冲撞着道德的堡垒，扭曲着社会思潮……她们是校园中的另类，是社会中的娇子，同时也是变革时期校园文化的缩影。她们是一面镜子，南阳生从镜中不仅可以看清自己，而且观照了整个校园文化和社会生活……他看了这本书，彷佛能成长几岁，有对传统的冲击，也有对潜在危险的预告。

南阳生睡不着了，干脆起床，去了宿舍楼外的走廊里，那里有休息的长椅，还有明亮的路灯。

南阳生开始翻阅另一本书籍《青春泪流满面》，这是一个有些悲情色彩的现代都市校园文学。故事描述了大学中的一群校园风云人物，他承包经营着学校的计算器房、水吧，在囊中羞涩的学生中拥有经济上的优越感，同时，为了达到经营的目的，他在学校中编制了一个人际网，相互明争暗斗。平时不学无术，却能够保研，他们交往很多女朋友，却也收获到真挚的爱情。

全书中有很多四川方言，按故事脉络及文笔来看，作者的写作功底并不逊色。但还是让南阳生闭上了眼，他似乎想到了更多自己以前并不关注的事。

不一会，他睁开了双眼，又拿起另一本书《复旦的爱情》，这是一本曾经或正在复旦园中生活的复旦学子们所写的有关爱情的短篇小说集。多位复旦学子通过故事展示出来的复旦的风貌，复旦的气息，以及生活在其中的复旦人的所思所想，虽然同样的爱情故事可能也会在其他学校中发生，但小说所展示的故事以外的东西却是非复旦没有的。

大学校园的学子爱情生活，其实从来就没有中止过，一直在校园中上演。但南阳生与爱情似乎无缘，他放弃了很多机会，他从不会在月下花前卿卿我我，情意绵绵。他没有如胶似漆的初恋风流韵事，更没有花天酒地的生活经历。

其实也有情窦初开的女大学生对他眉目传情，但南阳生不会眉来眼去。他不是不懂得爱情，而是不想陷入爱情的坑中。他的同学中，有一些才华横溢的男生成了离魂倩女围猎的物件，但往往卷入醋海翻波中，沉鱼落雁，暮翠朝红，真挚的爱情经常经历曲折，好事多磨。

海誓山盟，生死不渝，都是流水桃花。

儿女情长，红豆相思，只是戏梦一场。

校园里的恋爱，几乎没有从一而终、百岁好合的例子，如影随形的比翼双飞也大多是各奔前程，冷暖自知。

然而，南阳生对自己依旧那么自信，其实有时候人真的很无奈，那也成为他振作起来的唯一动力。他不相信校园里的爱情。他将大学校园看作是一个大舞台，一个属于你自己的舞台。他不会出演才子佳人的角色，也不会在意所有的聚光灯是否会向自己打来。他要做的就是努力去演好自己的角色，一个普通的向上的学子。

相信自己，也许没错。

Wake up（4）

 

4

 

The Nanyang student, who was about to leave the campus with the title of doctorate, was in a state of disarray.

The mobile phone is full of text messages from students wishing each other:

 

After several years of study and several years of experience, now is the time for us to use knowledge to prove the value of our life. On the occasion of parting, I wish you a bright future'.

 

Central Plains College of Humanities is the home we live together, but now we have to leave, just like leaving our own hometown, reluctant to part, because with your company, I will never forget it in my life, let us "look back" on the campus together!

 

Fate brings us together, friendship allows us to understand each other, separation makes us go our separate ways, youth makes us never forget, please remember our meeting and acquaintance, and send my sincere blessings at the time of parting, and wish you success in your career in the future.

 

On this summer night, all the classmates in the dormitory disappeared. Some went to the restaurant to clink glasses, and some kissed and hugged under the green trees on campus. Only Nanyangsheng stayed in the dormitory quietly. He stood in front of the window, looking at the quiet corridor downstairs of the dormitory, and he seemed to be able to feel the atmosphere of the former classmates shuttling here. Of course, there is also the love of mutual learning and exchange. In summer, all the flowers bloom here, once a year, every year. Now is the time to say goodbye to each other.

In fact, this summer is the most colorful and the closest to the reality of life. Because this summer, the classmates who once gathered on campus will be separated. There is forgetting, and there are also memories that cannot be forgotten in a lifetime. This is contemporary university life, passionate, mysterious, complex and pure. This is the test that every college student who has studied here must pass. A real hero often pierces the bone-chilling cold with his own blood!

"Post-00s" as a group are the main body of this university campus. Nearly 3/4 of the students here are "post-00s". This group of "post-00s", known as "millennial babies" and "421 family babies", is affected by factors such as growth environment and social development. Compared with "post-80s" and "post-90s", they have their own characteristics. Unique temperament and character.

The pursuit of personalized value is the most prominent characteristic of the "post-00s" college students. Unlike the "post-80s" who pursue material wealth and the "post-90s" who pursue freedom, what the "post-00s" college students pursue is the realization of individuality. value of transformation.

In China's special society, most of the "post-00s" are only children. Therefore, many college students believe that the collective exists because the collective can accommodate and expand the individual's personality, and the collective can help the individual realize the value. If the collective cannot achieve Without the above functions, there is no need for the collective to exist. These views highlight the strong individual consciousness of "post-00s" college students.

During the growth process of "post-00s" college students, because their parents generally have a higher level of education, the one-child family education they receive is generally better than that of "post-80s" and "post-90s" college students. There is an equal, open and interactive parent-child relationship between parents and "post-00s". Parents' education for "post-00s" is physical education, companionship education and emotional education, rather than "stick education", " Beating and scolding education", this kind of education method makes "post-00" college students have a natural sense of obedience to learning and the willingness to learn independently. The dramatic changes in society have also prompted changes in the learning methods of "post-00s".

Since the 21st century, China's basic education has placed more emphasis on the relationship between home and school and the role of the family in children's education. In addition to school education, "post-00s" study includes self-study and family counseling. In addition, training institutions and various interest classes in the society have also indirectly promoted the changes in the learning methods of "post-00s". Therefore, "post-00s" college students no longer stick to the learning of textbook knowledge, but focus on acquiring knowledge from new learning methods such as practical learning, experiential learning, and online learning. For example, "post-00" college students do not think that playing games is just an entertainment behavior, but that they can learn new knowledge and skills in the process of playing games. "Post-00" college students' cognition of learning methods is obviously in contrast with the mainstream cognition of society, but this is indeed a learning method that "post-00" college students firmly believe in and practice.

Since the "post-00s" college students were born and grew up in the Internet age, their use, contact, and understanding of online media in the process of growth are much higher than those of the "post-80s" and "post-90s", which makes them form Internet thinking, Their daily life and entertainment are inseparable from the Internet.

"Post-00s" college students generally have strong abilities in online social interaction, online consumption, online entertainment, and online learning. In their daily discourse system, they can often see hot words on the Internet such as "cutting the heart", "calling", "Buddhism", "eating chicken", and "chatting". Their way of registering for university is also unique: "arrive empty-handed" - report to school empty-handed. Because their packages and luggage are delivered to schools through logistics companies, it is obvious that "post-00s" college students will enjoy the convenience brought by the Internet of Things to their lives.

"Station B", "QQ Zone", "Online Mobile Games", "Anime", etc. are all places where "post-00s" college students like and gather. Unlike "post-90s", college students "post-00s" like the new and dislike the old " are more prominent. They like to try new things on the Internet, express their opinions through self-media, and like to chase stars, play games, make friends, and post animations through the Internet. However, the interests of "post-00s" college students shift quickly, and they have high requirements for online games and online social media. Only through continuous upgrading can they attract the continuous attention and application of "post-00s" college students.

  "Post-00s" college students are called "digital media natives". From their way of thinking to lifestyle and entertainment, they all reflect that they are the "mobile Internet generation". Their needs are characterized by fragmentation, multi-dimensionality and changeability. "Niche" is a distinctive feature of "post-00s" college students. Unlike people of other age groups, "post-00s" college students pursue niche things that can satisfy themselves. For example, activities such as "New Year's greetings" and "biliniang voting" at "Bilibili" are not known to the public, but they are deeply loved by "post-00s". The niche pursuit of "post-00s" college students has made their needs fragmented.

"Post-80s", "Post-90s" and "Post-00s" are obviously different groups, even if they are also "Post-00s", there are different niche groups. Their needs are also multi-dimensional, with not only obvious emotional needs, but also obvious independent characteristics, and they are willing to plan their own study life.

Nan Yangsheng's introverted personality made him only live in a small group, and more often he chose to be alone. Due to his poor family background and limited financial resources, he would not go to dance halls and bars, and he had no experience of falling in love at school.

College students are a group of star-chasers, but the "post-00s" college students' star-chasing shows new characteristics that are different from the past, that is, they like but are not fanatical. The idols they pursue are not "handsome" or "beautiful", but "low-key", "stable", "talented", "dedicated", "upright" and so on. The worship of idols is based on the logic of thinking that begins with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character.

Nan Yangsheng's pursuit of idol stars is not fanatical love for no reason, but the talent and character of idol stars, which shows that his way of dealing with the world is more rational.

Since "post-00s" college students know more about the operation mode of online media, they are no longer interested in ordinary product advertisements, and they are not easy to be tempted by ordinary product advertisements. Only products with personality, stories, and feelings can arouse their interest. It can be said that , They are good at using the Internet for consumption, and rationally consume in a targeted, targeted and planned manner. Nanyangsheng is in financial difficulties, and his consumption is also rational.

Nanyangsheng has a pragmatic ideal of life. He pays more attention to the present. In his opinion, it is better to honestly struggle for one's own future in the real society than the lofty ideals of macroscopic abstraction. The purpose of studying hard and being admitted to a university is to be able to improve yourself and find a satisfactory job in the future.

For life goals such as serving the motherland, contributing to society, and helping others, it seems to be a political slogan among college students. But in the life planning of these college students, most of the first consideration is their own growth and future, and on this basis, they consider the country, society and others. On how to achieve the goal of success, these college students also have a more pragmatic view, and they believe that success depends on their own efforts. The proportion who think that success depends on factors such as talent, opportunity, mentoring, and parental help is much lower than the proportion who think that success depends on personal hard work. It can be said that Nan Yangsheng is also a typical "realist".

After tomorrow's graduation ceremony, he must realistically make a plan for his future work and life.

醒悟（4）

 

4

 

带着博士学位的头衔即将离开校园的南阳生，此时心乱如麻。

手机上全是同学们互相祝福的短信：

 

几年的学习，几年的历练，现在是我们去用知识来证明自己人生价值的时刻了，值此离别之际，祝你前程似锦'。

　　

中原人文学院是我们共同生活的家，如今却要离开，就像离开自己的家乡，依依不舍，因为有你的陪伴，令我一生难忘，让我们一起对校园“再回首”！

　　

缘份让我们聚在一起，友情让我们互相了解，分离让我们各奔东西，青春让我们念念不忘，请记住我们的相逢、相知，离别时刻送上我真诚的祝福，愿日后事业有成。

 

这个夏天的夜晚，宿舍里的同学都不见了踪影，有的去餐馆碰杯了，有的在校园的绿树下亲吻拥抱。唯有南阳生静静地留在宿舍里，他站在窗前，望着宿舍楼下幽静的长廊，似乎还能感受到往日同学们在这里穿梭流动的气息。当然，还有相互学习交流的爱。夏季，所有的花儿都在这里绽放，一年一度，岁岁年年。现在却是相互告别的时候了。

其实，这个夏天最为绚烂多姿，也最接近人生现实。因为这个夏季，曾经相聚校园的同学就要分离了。有忘却，也有一生一世忘却不了的记忆。这，就是当代的大学生活，多情，神秘，复杂而又纯洁。这是每一个在这里就读过的大学生必经的考验。真正的英豪往往用自己的一腔热血将彻骨的寒冷洞穿!

“00后”作为一个群体是这个大学校园的主体。这里有近3/4的学生是“00后”。这群被称为“千禧宝宝”、“421家庭宝宝”的“00后”们，受成长环境、社会发展等因素的影响，与“80后”、“90后”相比，他们具有自身独特的气质和特点。

个性化的价值追求，是“00后”大学生群体身上最显着的特点，与“80后”追求物质财富、“90后”追求自由不同的是，“00后”大学生所追求的是实现个性化的价值。

在中国这个特殊的社会，“00后”大多数是独生子女，因此不少大学生认为，集体之所以存在，是因为集体可以包容、拓展个体的个性，集体能够帮助个体实现价值，如果集体不能达到上述功能，则集体就没有存在的必要性。这些看法凸显出“00后”大学生强烈的个体意识。

“00后”大学生在成长过程中，由于其父母的教育程度普遍较高，他们接受的独生子女家庭教育总体上要优于“80后”和“90后”大学生。父母和“00后”之间是一种平等、开放、互动的亲子关系，父母对“00后”的教育是身体力行教育、陪伴教育和情感教育，而不是中国封建时代的“棍棒教育”、“打骂教育”，这种教育方式使“00后”大学生对学习有一种天然的遵从感，有自主学习的意愿。社会的剧烈变化也促使“00后”学习方式的变迁。

21世纪以来，中国基础教育更强调家校联系，更注重发挥家庭在孩子教育中的作用，“00后”的学习除了学校教育外，还有自我学习、家庭辅导等。此外，社会上的培训机构、各种兴趣班也间接推动了“00后”学习方式的变迁。因此，“00后”大学生不再拘泥于课本知识的学习，而是着重从实践学习、体验学习、网络学习等新的学习方式中获取知识。比如，“00后”大学生并不认为打游戏只是一种娱乐行为，而是认为在打游戏的过程中可以学习到新的知识和技能。“00后”大学生对学习方式的认知显然和社会主流认知存在明显的反差，但这确实是“00后”大学生坚信并践行的一种学习方式。

由于“00后”大学生出生、成长在互联网时代，他们在成长过程中使用、接触、了解网络媒体的程度要远远高于“80后”、“90后”，这使得他们形成了互联网思维，他们的日常生活和娱乐活动都和互联网密不可分。

“00后”大学生普遍具有较强的网络社交、网络消费、网络娱乐、网络学习的能力。他们的日常话语体系中能经常见到“扎心了”、“打Call ”、“佛系”、“吃鸡”、“尬聊”等网络热词。他们的大学报到方式也是别具一格的：“空手到”——空手到校报到。因为他们的包裹、行李都是通过物流公司送到学校，显然，“00后”大学生更会享受物联网带给自己生活的便利。

“B站”、“QQ空间”、“网络手游”、“动漫”等，都是“00后”大学生喜欢并且聚集的地方，和“90后”不同的是，“00后”大学生“喜新厌旧”的特点更突出，他们喜欢尝试网络新鲜事物，喜欢通过自媒体表达自己的观点，喜欢通过网络去追星、玩游戏、交友、发动漫等。但是，“00后”大学生的兴趣转移很快，他们对网络游戏、网络社交媒体的要求很高，只有持续不断地进行更新换代，才能吸引“00后”大学生的持续关注和应用。

 “00后”大学生被称为“数媒土著”，从他们的思维方式到生活方式、娱乐方式，无不体现出他们是“移动互联网一代”。他们的需求呈现出碎片化、多维度、易变化的特点。“小众”是“00后”大学生身上的一个显着特点，与其他年龄段的人不同的是，“00后”大学生追求的是能满足自身的、小众的东西。比如，“B站”的“拜年祭”、“bili娘投票”等活动，不为大众所知，却深受“00后”的喜爱。“00后”大学生小众化的追求，使得其需求呈现碎片化的趋势。

“80后”“90后”和“00后”显然是不同的群体，即使同样是“00后”，也有不同的小众群体。他们的需求也是多维度的，既有明显的情感需求，也有显着的独立特性，愿意自己规划自己的学习生活。

南阳生的内向性格，让他只能活在小众群体中，而且更多的是选择了孤独。由于家境不富裕，受经济来源的束缚，他不会去舞厅酒吧，甚至也没有在校谈恋爱的经历。

大学生是追星一族，但是“00后”大学生的追星表现出了不同以往的新特点，即喜欢却不狂热。他们追崇的偶像，并不是“帅气”、“漂亮”，而是“低调”、“沉稳”、“有才”、“敬业”、“耿直”等。对偶像的崇拜是基于始于颜值、陷于才艺、忠于人品的思维逻辑。

南阳生对偶像明星的追崇，不是毫无理由地狂热喜爱，而是追崇偶像明星身上的才艺和人品，这体现出他的处世方式更趋理性化。

由于“00后”大学生更了解网络媒介的运营方式，对普通的商品广告已经不感冒，也不容易被普通商品广告诱惑，有个性、有故事、有情怀的商品才能引起他们的兴趣，可以说，他们善于运用网络进行消费，有目标、有针对性、有计划地进行理性消费。南阳生经济拮据，他的消费也是理性的。

南阳生有务实化的人生理想。他更注重当下，在他看来，宏观抽象的远大理想不如老老实实在现实社会中奋斗出自己的未来。努力学习、考入大学的目的就是能够提升自我，将来找到一份如意的工作。

对于报效祖国、奉献社会、帮助他人等人生目标，似乎是大学生群体中的政治口号。但在这些大学生的人生规划中，首先考虑的大多还是自己的成长和未来，在此基础上才考虑国家、社会和他人。而在如何达成成功目标上，这些大学生的观点也比较务实，他们认为成功要靠自己的努力。而认为成功靠天赋、机遇、良师指导、父母帮助等因素的比例要远远低于认为靠个人努力奋斗的比例。可以说，南阳生也是典型的“现实主义者”。

明天的毕业典礼结束后，他必须现实地为自己的日后工作和生活作一个规划。

 

Wake up（3）

 

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As a Ph.D. in Psychology from Central Plains College of Humanities, Nan Yangsheng is about to graduate and leave the campus. Since he chose to major in psychology, the problem facing him now is that no unit has hired such talents. What awaits him will be ruthless unemployment.

At this time, his mobile phone rang, and the information on the mobile phone came from his alumni, especially those doctoral students who were about to graduate together from different departments but in the same hospital.

Greeting text messages of graduation messages were collected on his mobile phone:

 

Friends, don't say goodbye, we are still destined to go out of school; friends, don't miss me too much, we are too busy to see each other every day. Friends, don't forget me, we are still together in the real struggle! Thanks to the college, let us meet the beautiful campus!

 

Campus is the most beautiful site in life. Here we learn professional knowledge, make close friends, find the direction of development, determine future goals, and complete the transition from dream to reality. If life can be repeated, I would rather meet my old classmates again!

 

Don't look back, it's too regretful; don't say goodbye, it's too sad; don't miss it, it's too sad. Just go quietly like this. Alumni, no matter if I was sorry to you before or you were sorry to me, don't talk too much, let's go!

 

With the end of the graduation ceremony, we are all starting to enter the society. What I want to say most at this time is that everyone cherishes and remembers all the memories we have together. , we have to separate, I hope the road ahead will be smooth sailing for everyone!

 

The road to our dreams may be full of difficulties and obstacles. As long as we work hard and believe in ourselves, we all have enough courage to reach the paradise of our dreams. When parting, tears blurred his eyes. I would like to say to myself and my dear classmates: To appraise the faith, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must go on bravely.

 

The once lively dormitory is now deserted. The classmates who used to love each other are now about to be scattered all over the world. Time can fade each other's memories, but it can't blur the deep friendship. Distance can block the connection with each other, but it cannot block the endless concern.

 

Unforgettable college life, we have become mature and have the courage to take responsibility. On campus, we gain knowledge and learn to be human. The alma mater is deeply affectionate, and the mountains, rivers and rivers here have left our beautiful memories, which I will always remember.

 

Words such as "full of vigor, vigor, and radiance, hard-working students" may never be written on us in the future. We need to meet new challenges and realize new dreams. Greater social responsibilities have been placed on our shoulders. For the better tomorrow of the country and the people, please stick to the beliefs we left behind in college...

 

It would be as absurd and ridiculous to label a certain group simply and rudely, but as far as current university observations are concerned, the group of college students is actually a very twisted group.

Why do college students say that they are basically adults in terms of age, but in fact, all aspects of college students have not kept up with the characteristics that should be possessed in the definition of adults, because they lack social experience, they are an adult group The most innocent and ignorant group in the world.

It is not easy to define the group of college students, but when it comes to college students, some words will always pop up in people's minds: simple, idol drama, star chasing, playing games, self-esteem, newborn calf, energetic, easily deceived, and mood swings , easy to be fooled, stubborn, grumpy, lazy, high-minded, strong self-esteem, lack of self-control and financial management skills.

In short, this group of college students is a group that seems to be adults, but in fact they have not completely broken away from their youth in all aspects. Most college students can't even handle the most basic interpersonal relationships well.

When you are lucky enough to step into the threshold of the university, you will find that the university is not so much a holy land as a melting pot. The university campus is integrated with the world and the society. There are students from all corners of the country, and there are various and colorful activities, forming a unique campus culture. The university campus incorporates the innocence of the middle school age, and also includes all kinds of things in the world and everything in the world. Whether it is common trivial matters in society or unique anecdotes and anecdotes in school, they will always appear in front of you, and the key depends on how you perceive and understand them. As a result, some people became "The Legend of Condor Heroes" after entering the university, while some became "Swordsman", while others could only become "Xiakers".

During the time when Nanyang was living in college, he discovered that this "ivory tower" has edges and corners, and it is possible to bump into it if you are not careful.

In middle school, most students are used to asking the teacher what to do; but in college, the teacher will not give you a clear answer, you need to think and choose by yourself.

Once, the college held a national English speech contest, but at the same time, they could watch the performance of the world-renowned symphony orchestra in the auditorium. How would the students choose? For Nan Yangsheng, he chose to listen to the speech, because he thought watching the speech contest would bring Earn more for yourself.

Of course, different people have different perspectives on problems, and different problems have different ways of dealing with them. In fact, learning how to think about problems and how to choose between dilemmas should also be regarded as one of the university courses, and it is also a kind of self-training.

The introverted Nanyang Sheng is diligent and down-to-earth, working silently for his goals. He cherishes this learning opportunity and regards college life as another new starting point in his life and the most important journey in his life.

Tomorrow is the graduation ceremony, and the favorite topic of the students is to talk about what kind of jobs everyone has found. Sometimes, people will find that those students who have been successful in the student union have neither been admitted to civil servants nor even found a decent job in the end. On the contrary, sometimes, I was surprised to hear that some introverted students were successfully hired by foreign-funded enterprises. Some even became civil servants in ministries and commissions.

Introverts have the characteristics of being diligent and down-to-earth. In order to achieve their goals, they will bear the pressure and work hard alone. From a psychological point of view, introverted personality is not only related to genetic inheritance, but also related to the growth environment in childhood. The reason why many people have an introverted personality is related to the education method of the original family.

In the infinite longing and daydream, time always slips away silently behind you, slips under your feet, and flies past your field of vision... Before you know it, college life is coming to an end.

Nan Yangsheng was not in a hurry to find a job, but wanted to go back to his hometown to visit his parents and his disabled grandfather.

Leaving the campus with a doctorate is the harbinger of the end of student life and the beginning of real social life.

Nan Yangsheng still remembers that when he first entered university, he often walked alone on the huge campus, looking at strange faces, and felt lonely in his heart. Even when interacting with rich children, sometimes at that moment, I feel that I am so small, poor and poor.

Now, it is time to leave this university. Nan Yangsheng suddenly realized that he had fallen into loneliness again.