Wake up（293）

 

293

 

Nanyangsheng, Wanru, Cheng Yenan, and Sun Aijun ate and chatted at a small restaurant near Xinyang Station. The topic of the four young people turned to the theme of happiness. It is only when you love so much that it is precious. Many people don't know how to cherish possession. You only see it when you lose it. In fact, the most familiar is the most precious. The origin and extinction, the thick and the weak, are beyond our control. What we can do is to cherish the short time when we meet by chance. Those initial throbs of youth can become the power to warm a lifetime.

Sun Aijun said:

I recently watched the classic Thai movie "A Little Thing of First Love", which was remade in China. After many years of missing and waiting, the heroine Xiaoshui and the hero A Liang are finally together happily. The director broke the news that this movie is an adaptation of real people and real events, 60% of which are true stories, but the ending in reality is super sad, falling in love but not being together.

The heroine Xiaoshui has a crush on the senior, A Liang. In order to match the handsome and tall senior, she learns to make up and dress up, and strives to change from an ugly duckling to a white swan. But when he confessed, he found out that the senior already had a girlfriend. Fortunately, the senior finally realized that he had liked Xiaoshui for a long time. After waiting for Xiaoshui for 9 years, the lover finally got married.

But over the years, Xiao Shui and A Liang have also been going around, meeting each other again, getting married and having children. It turns out that the real version of their ending is super sad.

Wanru said:

I also saw this movie when I was in my junior year. Xiao Shui in the movie was also a junior student at the time. In order to be worthy of the tall and handsome senior A Liang, Xiao Shui not only studied harder, but also changed his appearance, learned to make up, maintain, and dress up, and finally succeeded in changing from an ugly duckling to an ugly duckling. Became a white swan.

When Xiao Shui confessed to her senior, she saw other girls confessing her love one step earlier, so Xiao Shui felt that it was impossible, so she ran home crying.

Wanru said to Sun Aijun: Do you still remember the photo album senior A Liang made for Xiaoshui?

Sun Aijun said: I remember. The photo album is full of cute and beautiful Xiaoshui in the eyes of Senior A Liang, and it is also filled with words with heart. This is also a gift that really existed in reality!

Wanru continued:

In reality, after Xiao Shui ran home, she cried bitterly at home but heard a knock on the door. When she opened the door, it turned out to be Senior A Liang! The senior handed her a photo album, Xiaoshui thought it was just an ordinary graduation gift, so she took it and hid in the room to continue crying. Finally, after returning to the room, I opened the photo album and saw the senior's words of love, and realized that the two of them were secretly in love with each other! But when Xiao Shui ran to open the door again, the senior who thought he was rejected had disappeared. In reality, the two never saw each other again.

Many years later, Xiao Shui once met his seniors in college, and they just said hello to each other, and then went on with their lives.

Another senior who is acquainted with Senior A Liang contacts Xiao Shui. The two chatted from the past to the current situation, and eventually became a couple, got married and had children. Xiaoshui is now the mother of three children.

Cheng Yenan smiled: "You girls like to watch this kind of romantic first love movie story. Marriage in real life is full of regrets, but not so much romance."

Sun Aijun said: "You just watch the news about the Russia-Ukraine war and the Taiwan Strait turmoil. So your life can't be romantic."

Cheng Yenan refused to accept and said: "Do you think I am not romantic? Men don't care about domestic and international affairs, are they still called men? Men don't understand love, that is a misunderstanding. Regarding marriage, people at every stage will have different opinions. My point of view is that when I was young, I was full of expectations for marriage, maybe it was the first love full of enthusiasm. However, have you noticed that marriage, divorce, and remarriage have become the fashion of today. It seems very calm. Especially the elderly half-way couples have different experiences and they all have their own ideas, so it is not easy to get along. So what thoughts will the elderly half-way couples have when they have sex on the first night? Ha, let's discuss one time."

Sun Aijun said: "If I remarry, I must find a man who is rich and powerful and listens to me. This man must be better than you!"

The four young people were happy, and the topic turned to those various remarriage stories circulated on the Internet. From Sun Yat-sen, Chiang Kai-shek, Mao Zedong, to the anecdotes of celebrities and show business circles, those stories of remarriage and remarriage have all become red love stories or legends of mistresses successfully winning husbands.

Nan Yangsheng said: I know a 65-year-old Uncle Zhang in my hometown. It was at the clinic of old Chinese medicine practitioner Chai Jianhua. Chai Jianhua, an old Chinese doctor, told me that Uncle Zhang had two marriages, one was when he was 25 years old, and he and his wife were in love with each other at that time. Uncle Zhang felt that he and his wife would live a lifetime, because they loved each other very much, and Uncle Zhang could give everything for his wife, but what he didn't expect was that his wife had terminal cancer. Uncle Zhang accompanied his wife to the clinic to see a doctor. Although she went to some big hospitals for active treatment and spent all her money, it didn't work. Chai Jianhua also has no way to recover. The illness was ruthless, but Uncle Zhang's wife still left. Uncle Zhang was very sad. When he was still in the grief of losing his wife, he met his second wife. But then Uncle Zhang fell ill. At that time, he was 40 years old and couldn't do heavy work anymore. Chai Jianhua also treated him. Uncle Zhang lost the ability to work, and his remarried wife took care of Uncle Zhang for 5 years, but she felt that these years were too tiring, thinking that Uncle Zhang could not make money, so she divorced Uncle Zhang.

Nan Yangsheng continued:

Later, Uncle Zhang thought about not looking for a wife, because he lost the ability to work and it was not very convenient to walk. After two marriages, Uncle Zhang is also open to it. At the age of 65, Unexpectedly, Uncle Zhang met a woman who wanted to marry back home. This person is 55-year-old Ms. Chen.

Ms. Chen and her husband started from scratch, and they had a sensible son. Originally, Ms. Chen thought she would be happy. But what he didn't expect was that the husband couldn't resist the temptation and had a relationship with another woman. At that time, my husband was away from home all the year round because he was busy with company affairs. Ms. Chen thought that her husband had been working hard for the company in other places, but she didn't expect that her husband had an affair with a female employee in the branch company in other places. Ms. Chen was very angry when she found out about this incident, and her husband wanted Ms. Chen to forgive her. But she felt that she and her husband could not go back, so she divorced her husband.

After Ms. Chen met Uncle Zhang, she took the initiative to show her love to him. In fact, Ms. Chen is not sincere to Uncle Zhang. Because she knew that Uncle Zhang once opened a transportation company and later made money. Thinking that Uncle Zhang can help his worthless son. Uncle Zhang also knows what Ms. Chen thinks. Later, the two got married, and had the same room on the first night. Uncle Zhang thought that if Ms. Chen took good care of herself, then he could give some of his money to Ms. Chen. But if she was only doing it for money, then Uncle Zhang wouldn't be so stupid and give money to Ms. Chen for nothing.

Ms. Chen took good care of Uncle Zhang, and there was no quarrel. Unfortunately, shortly after the outbreak of the new crown epidemic, Uncle Zhang died of illness.

When Ms. Chen sorted out Uncle Zhang's belongings, she found out that Uncle Zhang had a house and a car in the city, and he still had hundreds of thousands of deposits before his death. Why did Uncle Zhang hide these properties from himself? Ms. Chen got these properties, but she is no longer attached to marriage, nor does she believe that true love exists in the world. Later, she went to the mall to buy clothes, and met a handsome guy who bought clothes. The guy is 30 years old, he is very smart and can speak well. Ms. Chen thinks the guy is really nice. Later, the two became more and more acquainted, and Ms. Chen decided to live with the boy. This matter was known by her friends and family, and they were unanimously opposed. But Ms. Chen insisted on her choice regardless of other people's objections. In the same room on the first night, Ms. Chen felt uneasy. She also knew that the age gap between herself and the boy was too big, and when she got old, what would the boy despise her for? I was also worried that the guy was trying to get his own money, but Ms. Chen felt that she was very happy with the guy now. So what if I want to spend my own money, the most important thing is to live in the present, and to be able to live happily every day.

We always have to spend our whole life to forget, to fight against longing and hope; but society is never fair, when we play a game that we must lose, we often lose our whole life. Maybe only when memory becomes something outside of us, can we go further in this cemetery-like world.

Nan Yangsheng sighed: In fact, remarriage at an old age really involves thinking a lot and worrying a lot. Everyone has their own ideas. But for remarriage, it must be with a better life, because after two people get married, they can face all kinds of life. Remarriage after old age is to find someone who supports each other, and can also help each other in later life. But sometimes, love is also kind of hurt. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.