Chapter 52
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With
Wang Wu and Hua Runmei as the hosts, Nanyangsheng and Wanru, Cheng Yenan and
Sun Aijun and other young men and women were chatting and laughing in the
"Juyi Hall" of the small hotel. Added a lot of joy and laughter.
While
joking, Wang Wu's girlfriend Hua Runmei said to Nan Liwa: "Your brother's
good friend Zhang San, that is, San Pang, his mother now lives in the United
States, his brother immigrated to Portland, the United States, and his sister
Immigrated to Edmonds, Canada. But he didn't want to go abroad. I heard that
San Pang fell in love with a girl like a nympho. It was the girl who dragged
him down and refused to let him leave him to go to America. Do you know this
girl?"
Nan
Liwa said: "Wow, I know her. Her name is Masuya, and she is the daughter
of the urban management captain. She now runs a Shuya foot massage shop and has
made a lot of money. Because her uncle Malafu is the deputy mayor." Nan
Liwa Wa turned to Wang Wu and said, "Your father is also the deputy mayor,
so he should be Malafu's official colleague."
Wang Wu
said: "I have met Malafu, and I have also been to the Shuya Foot Bath
Shop, and I know Masuya. But I don't know that Masuya's uncle is Malafu."
Nan
Yangsheng asked his sister Nan Liwa: "Sister, can you contact San
Pang?"
Nan
Liwa said: "Okay, Sanpang has found a job in Shenzhen and bought a house,
and plans to take Ma Suya to go there to develop together. Sanpang is in the
town these few days, and he is busy handling household registration and medical
card transfers." formalities."
Nan
Liwa picked up the phone and called out to Sanpang: "Fatty, I'm Liwa, hurry
to Wangwu Hotel, I'll give you a surprise. My brother Nanyangsheng is waiting
for you in Juyi Hall !"
Nan
Liwa put down her phone and said with a smile, "San Pang will be here
soon."
Wang Wu
ordered the hotel attendant Xiao Tian to give San Pang a seat. Nan Liwa said to
Xiao Tian, "Add one more."
Nan
Liwa smiled and said to Wang Wu's girlfriend Hua Runmei: "San Pang will
definitely bring his girlfriend here, Ma Suya is inseparable from him now, I'm
afraid he may have an affair!"
While
joking, Sanpang brought Masuya to the "Juyi Hall" as expected.
However, San Pang brought another young man.
The
waiter Xiao Tian was busy adding a chair for the young man.
San
Pang smiled and said to everyone: "Do you know him? Do you know him? This
is little Kong Ming, our childhood friend Li Si."
Wang Wu
stepped forward and held Li Si's hand tightly: "Wow, you're here too!
Come, I'll see you two old friends again."
At this
time, Nan Liwa and Nan Yangsheng came over.
Li Si
was happy to see the two siblings. He said to his girlfriend Ma Suya:
"They are my old friend Nan Shanyun's sister and brother."
After all the friends sat down, Sanpang
said with a smile, "It's been a long time since we met. Today, I'm very
happy to have a reunion. Over the years, I searched and found a
girlfriend." He put his hand on Masuya's shoulder: "Her name is
Masuya. I came here from Shenzhen this time to go through the formalities of
transferring her household registration and medical insurance card. After
finishing the procedures, I will legally abduct her to Shenzhen!"
San
Pang smiled and said to Masuya: "I used to think I was a master at
kidnapping women, but now, look, my buddies all have a female boss holding
hands."
Wang Wu
asked Li Si: "Brother is the little Kongming in our hearts, how is your
wife?"
Li Si
smiled and said, "Do you know who Zhuge Liang's wife is?"
Wang Wu
and San Pang were stunned. Nan Liwa, Ma Suya, Hua Runmei, Wanru, and Sun Aijun
were all stunned. No one knew who Zhuge Liang's wife was.
Nan
Yangsheng smiled and said: "She is an ugly woman, but she is very
talented. Her father, Huang Chengyan, Gao Shuangkailie, is a famous scholar in
Miannan. Huang Chengyan said to Zhuge Liang who is still in Longzhong: I heard
that you are choosing a mate. I have a An ugly daughter with yellow hair and
dark skin, but she can match you. As a result, Zhuge Liang agreed and
immediately married Huang over. People at that time took this as a joke. There
is a saying in the countryside: "Mo Xue When Zhuge Liang got married, he
fell in love with Ah Cheng’s ugly daughter.’ Huang’s aunt was Liu Biao’s
stepwife, Mrs. Cai, and there is no mention of Huang’s whereabouts in the
history books.”
Li Dada
laughed and said: "That's right. Old Kongming hides his ugly wife at home
and never makes it public. This is because he is good at hiding his
clumsiness."
Nan
Yangsheng laughed: Deng Xiaoping said "Hide your strengths and bide your
time, be good at hiding your clumsiness, never take the lead, and make a
difference." That was just his diplomatic rhetoric. What does it have to
do with you marrying a wife?
Li Si
said: Now the whole world knows the Chinese idiom "Hide your strength and
bide your time", and the source is naturally Deng Gong. But how many
people really know the origin and story of the idiom "keep a low
profile"?
Wang Wu
and San Pang were happy: Xiao Kongming will tell us this story.
Li Si
said: Keeping a low profile is an idiom familiar to us Chinese. It comes from
"Old Tang Book·Xuan Zong Ji", which tells the story of Li Chen, the
13th son of Emperor Xianzong of Tang Dynasty, who hides his talent so that it
will not be exposed. In the end, aim at the opportunity, win by surprise, and
seize the big position.
Li Chen
is the 13th son of Li Chun, Emperor Xianzong of Tang Dynasty, and was named
King of Light in the middle of Changqing. Before he ascended the throne, Li
Chen, as a prince, had to leave Beijing. This must start from his situation at
that time. Li Chen's mother met the emperor and gave birth to Li Chen. It's a
pity that when Li Chen was young, Emperor Xianzong was assassinated by eunuchs,
leaving behind this pair of mother and son, neither the mother is more
expensive than the son, nor the son is more expensive than the mother.
In
February 820, Li Heng was promoted to the throne by eunuchs for Tang Muzong;
four years later, Muzong died of illness after taking the longevity medicine,
and his son Jingzong Li Zhan took over, but he only lived to be 18 years old.
After his death, his brother Wenzong Li Ang , Wu Zong and Li Yan successively
took over.
During
this 20-year period, the position of Li Chen, the uncle of the three dynasties,
was delicate and embarrassing. He could only use the way of Huang Lao to hide
his strength and bide his time, pretending to be stupid. The special status of
the former king still made him unable to escape the fate of suspicion,
rejection, and extrusion by his nephews. The two emperors, Wenzong and Wuzong,
were even more hostile to him. Not only did they not treat each other with
courtesy, they also tried every means to persecute him. In 841 A.D., when Tang
Wuzong ascended the throne, in order to avoid disaster, Li Chen "invited
him to become a monk and traveled between the rivers and mountains" and
stayed away from the place of right and wrong. It should be said that the
decision Li Chen made at that time was a wise move. And the exile at the
bottom, reading all the vicissitudes of life, also provided him with an
opportunity to become a great career in the future.
Although
Li Chen with the dharma name "Qiong Jun" lives in seclusion in a
remote mountain isolated from the world, he has not devoted himself to Buddha
and forgotten his heart's ambition. Holding Jin Huaiyu in his arms, he imitated
Kong Ming who hugged his knees in Longzhong and Taigong who fished leisurely in
Weishui, ready to wait for the time to move. During the six years of Tang
Wuzong's reign, he kept inquiring about the situation in the palace through
secret channels, and actively engaged in activities of seizing power in order
to realize his long-cherished wish of "returning to the Dragon
Palace".
Although
he has been hiding his ambition, during his three years in Zhenji Temple in
Tianzhu Mountain in Fujian, his talent was revealed through a couplet when he
chanted a couplet with the famous monk Huang Bo while watching the waterfall.
One
day, Li Chen and monk Huang Bi were chatting in the mountains. Facing a
waterfall on the cliff, Huang Bo came to Yaxing, and said to Li Chen: "I
have to make an upper line, see if you can get the second line." Li Chen
was also very interested, and said: "You tell me Listen, I will be
right." Huang Bo then chanted: "Thousands of rocks and ravines are
tireless, and you can see where they come from from a distance." Li Chen
almost blurted out: "How can the stream be kept, the sea will eventually
be the waves. "
Li Chen
is like the waterfall. After experiencing the hardships of "thousands of
rocks and valleys without hesitation", he will eventually fly pearls and
jade, and the stone will break the sky. In 846 A.D., with the support of the
eunuchs, Li Chen took the throne from his nephew, and it was Tang Xuanzong. He
was 37 years old.
Wang Wu
and Sanpang suddenly felt that their knowledge had greatly increased.
Nan
Yangsheng said: We all know the famous saying of keeping a low profile and
keeping a low profile refers to Deng Xiaoping's 28-character policy of
"keeping a low profile and making a difference", which has long been
used as the general policy of my country's international strategy, guiding us
to successfully deal with the end of the Cold War, the upheaval in Eastern
Europe, etc. and other complex multilateral international situations. But no
matter how you say it, this "keeping a low profile" has nothing to do
with love and marriage.
Li Si
said: "Hide your strength and bide your time" inspires people to be
persevering, modest, prudent, and hidden, and always keep your heart, mind, and
body down to be with the weak majority. Promotes perseverance, humility and
closeness to the people. In terms of actions and strategies, use static to
restrain, use softness to overcome rigidity, and externally behave low,
wronged, and incompetent, so that people will feel disgusted with themselves
and give up their guard against themselves. Relying on this
"deceiving" illusion reduces the pressure from the outside world and
relaxes the opponent's vigilance, while he secretly prepares, actively
"prepares for war", and then aims at the opportunity to win by
surprise. Many people who have achieved great things have a history of keeping
a low profile before their achievements. Be a real wise man, and victory will
eventually belong to you.
Li Si
also said: "Politics should be about "keeping a low profile",
diplomacy should be about "keeping a low profile", and marriage and
love should also be about "keeping a low profile." Look at those
founding fathers and today's dignitaries, who didn't remarry and remarry, marry
a beautiful woman, or keep a few mistresses. In terms of actions and
strategies, they all use static to restrain and use softness to overcome
rigidity? It's not that I can't find a woman, but I'm sinking my heart, sinking
my heart, sinking my body, and I'm waiting for an opportunity!
All the
friends laughed from ear to ear when they heard it.
Li Si
suddenly became serious: "I'm kidding, let's make a joke. Why do I say
these nonsense things? It's because I've been confused by China's diplomacy
recently."
Chinese
Foreign Minister Qin Gang disappeared for a month, but President Xi couldn't
get rid of it. He was used to make fun of him on international diplomatic
occasions, making him feel ashamed. This is the most embarrassing and
outrageous thing since the establishment of the CCP. It is a heavy political
liability for a foreign minister who is so politically reliable, healthy and
caring, to suddenly disappear, whereabouts are unknown, and rumors are flying
everywhere. No matter how stupid a person is, he knows that procrastination
will cause greater losses. Why is the boss still hesitant? Obviously, this
person lacks the basic wisdom of crisis management and the foresight to predict
the situation, so he has no choice but to bite the bullet and procrastinate.
Qin
Gang is not only the foreign minister, he is also a state councilor, and the
deputy state level is equal to the deputy prime minister. In the Ming Dynasty,
it was equivalent to Shangshu, a bachelor. Even in the era of supremacy of
imperial power, it is impossible to kill at will, let alone play with
indignation. In China, even in the era of imperial power, the emperor also had
to take responsibility, and he had to give an account to the civil and military
officials of the Manchu Dynasty. This guy seems to prove to the world that his
"characteristic" new China does not need a government at all, let
alone a system. He's leading a gang, and he's the boss. Anyone who refuses to
accept him will be dragged out. China today is not a centralized monarchy, but
totalitarianism. There is a system in the age of the monarch, and the monarchy
is restricted. Gangsters don't need a system, and the power of the boss in the
gang is unlimited! After the death of the gangster boss, there is fire!
Minister
Qin Gang's affair is all in the crotch. Events are still unfolding. The Chinese
foreign minister who looks like a human being but is full of thieves and
prostitutes, why doesn't he do something serious? That woman Fu really took Qin
Gang from the hands of the middle-aged wife, fighting for a long time ? There
is no regret medicine in the world. Now there is an uproar everywhere, if you
pull out the radish and bring out the mud, what kind of economic problems,
political problems, espionage problems are pulled out, plus the dangers of the
world, and being thrown into trouble by others, everyone knows that the
embarrassment of A’s political opponent in the official career is exactly the
reason for B’s prosperity Opportunity; A's sinking is just the sacrifice that
can make B's rising. Now Fu Nv and Qin Gang's past glamorous insides have all
been uncovered and reported.
China's
official media officially announced that Qin Gang had been removed from the
shelves, and the 70-year-old prince had once again put on the coat of war wolf
of the Minister of Foreign Affairs. Regardless of whether in the East or the
West, in ancient or modern times, official careers are cruel and ruthless. Now
not only is Fu Nu gone, Qin Gang is also gone, and the image of Chinese
diplomats is also gone. China's diplomacy has been involved in those things in
the crotch. How could the ostentatious demeanor of a big country and the vanity
envied by the world suddenly be ridiculed, and China's diplomatic achievements
have become "nothing"?
I have
to think of Deng Xiaoping's "hide your strength and bide your time"
foreign policy. As we all know, China is a socialist country, and its system is
different from that of the United States, Europe, Japan and other countries. If
we want to be serious, friction and even hostility are inevitable. Although
both sides will suffer losses, it is obvious that Western developed countries
can afford it, but China cannot afford it. In China at that time, development
was the top priority. Therefore, Deng Xiaoping, with his rich experience and
extraordinary wisdom, put forward the idea of "observing calmly,
maintaining a stable position, coping calmly, keeping a low profile, being good
at hiding one's weakness, never taking the lead, and making a difference."
The main content of the international strategic policy is to not dispute the
short-term advantages and disadvantages of the moment, and to exchange for the
future take-off with temporary forbearance. This move is in line with the
interests of our country and the theme of world development. Looking back at
history, it is clearer. Since the reform and opening up, China has been
thriving for decades not because of taking the initiative to attack and making
enemies on all sides; it is precisely because of an accurate understanding of
"keeping a low profile".
Li Si
sighed: Diplomacy should talk about "keeping a low profile", and
countries should talk about mutual trust and mutual benefit, and never take the
lead. Diplomacy is the same as marriage, sincerity and trust are the key to
getting married, and a marriage without a foundation will inevitably break
down. "Hide your strength and bide your time" is not only Deng Xiaoping's
external strategy, but also his life experience. He has "three ups and
downs". Like Li Chen, he hides his talents and keeps them from being
exposed. Finally, aim at the opportunity and win by surprise, in order to win
the big position. The ugly girl Huang also did not show her talents, so she won
Zhuge Liang's favor.
All the
friends had an epiphany, but they were all speechless.
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