Ｓanctimonious

 

Ｓanctimonious

 

On the way back to the hotel, Agudengba and Chu Sanxing chatted about Confucius and Confucian etiquette and moral values, and also talked about Taoist horoscopes.

Agudengba said to Chu Sanxing: Do you believe in physiognomy?

Chu Sanxing said: Most Burmese people believe in Buddhism, but some people believe in Taoism. I met a Taoist priest who told me about physiognomy. He said that treacherous people always "form cliques."

Agudenba smiled:

It is true that people who are treacherous always form cliques. Whether in the workplace or in social circles, the word we hear most is "gregarious". In fact, "grouping" seems to be just a group of people getting together for certain hobbies and purposes, but in fact, there are people behind it all.

Why a circle can be formed is because someone is definitely "fueling the flames" behind it. And these people are basically those with scheming minds. They form circles and use "grouping" as a guise to target some people and exclude others to achieve their personal goals. Many times, you will find that there are colleagues around you who, although their work ability is mediocre, are very popular, and they will definitely not lack their share of prizes. In fact, we can see through such people at a glance. Because in this world, those who are capable cannot compare to those who can "win people's hearts." When we face "hypocritical" people, we actually need to look at them twice. If his hypocrisy does not cause any harm to others, then his hypocrisy has nothing to do with us. If his hypocrisy has reached the level of "treachery" and can "eat" us at any time, then we must be vigilant. Because the human heart is like a knife, they may attack us for profit.

What do you think about "being gregarious"? Agudengba asked Chu Sanxing.

Chu Sanxing said: Maybe I am not a gregarious person, so I chose to be a hunter. I live in this complicated world, and it is difficult to determine what kind of person the other person is from his daily behavior.

Agudenba said:

"A long journey will tell you a horse's power, but time will tell you a person's heart." As you experience more, you will understand who are loyal people and who are sanctimonious and scheming people.

There is a saying that goes like this: "One way in front of others, another in the back." There are some people who openly call you brothers and sisters. They either care about you here or care about you there. They simply treat you as a good brother or a good best friend. Once you meet such a person and such a thing, you will feel something is wrong, but you just can't say that you are so ugly. At that time, you may be easily "calculated" by others.

From the perspective of people with "scheming minds", if they want to scheme against someone, they must first dispel the person's defensiveness, and then they can follow the stick and "stab the knife" in the back.

To be honest, this kind of thing is actually not uncommon. Because in this society, there are many people who are fooling around, and there are also many people who are extremely hypocritical. Their superficial skills are used to "fool" people.

Agudengba said again:

In life, there is a saying that goes like this: On the surface, you are full of benevolence, justice and morality, but behind the scenes, you are full of male thieves and female prostitutes. In fact, we call these people "hypocrites". Do you think there are many hypocrites in this society? In fact, they are all around us.

When society develops to a certain level, people's feelings will gradually become alienated, and people's hearts will gradually become evil for the sake of profit. Then, the number of hypocrites will slowly increase as the complexity of society deepens. Just like in the workplace, you will see some people shouting to fight for the collective enterprise, but they can only shout slogans. Some people focus all their attention on pleasing their bosses and do nothing practical.

However, one characteristic of them is that they feel particularly "sense of justice". Such people, on the surface, want to be both "good people" and "establish a memorial arch." We must not offend such people, because public opinion and people's hearts are controlled by them.

Chu Sanxing said: Therefore, for me, the first is not to get close to these people, and the second is to slowly stay away. Maybe this is the best strategy.

Agudengba said again:

People who are treacherous can hide their "emotions, anger, sorrows and joys". We can usually see such people, no matter what happens to them, they always have a smile on their face and never show any emotional behavior.

These people are actually very scary. Because they have long been accustomed to hiding their "emotions, anger, sorrow, and joy", they can control their true emotions no matter what situation they are in. When a person's hypocrisy reaches a certain level, even he himself will be deceived by himself, and not even what happens in the outside world can touch his heart.

Agudengba sighed:

Maybe you will say, knowing that "emotions and anger cannot be expressed in color", isn't this the basic principle of life? However, if a person even pretends to have feelings, and not only that, but his dark emotions have been accumulating in his heart and will not be vented, then this person's methods are particularly cruel and ruthless.

Why do we often say that we should vent our inner emotions? It is necessary to clear your heart in time to prevent it from becoming distorted. Those sanctimonious and scheming people have long lost the principles they should have, and their hearts have become extremely dark. Such a person has no human touch at all.

Agudengba and Chu Sanxing walked and chatted unconsciously, and soon returned to the hotel.

Agudengba said to Chu Sanxing:

When we face someone who always has the same expression or is always smiling, we should be wary. You know, people with true temperament have warm hearts. As for sanctimonious people, their hearts are crueler than "snake and scorpion".

Agudengba hummed a ditty "Sanctimonious" casually:

 

He looked sanctimonious;

Smiling faces every day,

He always has this expression,

No mood changes.

 

He hid his joy, anger and sorrow,

But you didn't pay attention to observe,

Even his feelings are disguised,

He must be cruel and heartless at heart.